Florence Pugh Calls on Male Peers to Condemn Cornell After Gang Rape Lawsuit: ‘Stop Damaging Our Souls’

“How can you expect us to trust that it’s ‘not all men’ when in moments like this, many of you stay quiet?” writes the star

Florence Pugh attends the 'East of Eden' screening at BAFTA (Karwai Tang/WireImage)
Florence Pugh attends the 'East of Eden' screening at BAFTA (Karwai Tang/WireImage)
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Florence Pugh shared an extensive letter Sunday condemning Cornell University for “protecting” seven men accused of rape in a new lawsuit by a former student, calling upon male peers to speak up about the “soul-destroying” allegations.

“After reading about the young woman who was gang raped at her college by her friend and school peers, I’m feeling uneasy and sick and anxious. I’m processing quietly and watching everything and everyone and every man,” Pugh wrote in a statement posted to social media. “This is really the moment where we need our men to be as horrified and as sickened as us. You need to be leading conversations about how we change the allowance and complicity of this behaviour as much as we are. How can you expect us to trust that it’s ‘not all men’ when in moments like this, many of you stay quiet?”

Pugh’s statement was posted with a caption calling the lawsuit a “human issue, not a women’s issue. We are all involved. Men especially.”

On Thursday, reports emerged that an anonymous former Cornell student was suing the school and seven Chi Pi fraternity members, claiming the organization failed to protect her and prevent the assault, alleged to have occurred in 2024. The Jane Doe claims that she visited the Chi Pi fraternity house while intoxicated, where she alleges that two frat brothers pressured her into snorting a substance they claimed was ketamine before beginning to sexually assault her. A man then allegedly told the frat’s Snapchat group that a woman was available for sex. The claimant then says she was raped for hours.

After filing a report to university police, an investigation ended with only two of seven accused fraternity members expelled, while others received less punishments such as suspensions, workshops and essays.

A representative for Cornell did not immediately respond to a request for comment.

“Every single person who knew or heard about this happening, should be looked at with serious concern. They are as evil as those planning it. To know that a torture as violent as rape is about to happen ‘upstairs’ and not do ANYTHING ABOUT IT, is sick, cowardly and cold,” Pugh wrote. “This is a killing of a soul. Destroying of a body and killing of a soul. And they’ve been let off? All it takes is write a quick ‘I’m so sorry I raped a girl while she was drugged with my friends, we thought it would be fine?’ essay and you’re good to go! This is unacceptable.”

“There is no equality until you respect our bodies. There is no equality until you stop damaging our souls. There is no equality until you let us live. There is no equality until we can say we feel safe. We are the life force of this earth, start f–king protecting us. Be angry for us. Please,” Pugh’s statement concluded.

Josh Gad also shared a statement commenting on the lawsuit against Cornell, writing that “When we start setting a precedent that our girls and women can be brutally raped, and the resulting disciplinary action is to hand out (checks notes) ESSAYS (like it’s Bart Simpson being a lil’ rascal), about why it was wrong to brutally violate an innocent girl, we have lost our f–king minds.”

Read Pugh’s full letter on her Instagram.

If you or someone you know has experienced sexual assault, help is available through RAINN, the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network. Call 800-656-HOPE (4673) or visit RAINN.org for confidential support and resources.

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  1. Sarah Martin Avatar
    Sarah Martin

    To “Chase Lazenby” The “men are the only gender being assigned accountability” argument is doing an impressive amount of rhetorical heavy lifting for a claim you haven’t actually demonstrated. No one is assigning every man responsibility for the actions of other men. That would be collective guilt. The point is that men, like women, are capable of exercising moral agency—and that includes refusing to look the other way when other men behave in ways that are coercive, predatory, or abusive. There is a rather important difference between saying “you are responsible for what another man did” and saying “you have some responsibility for what you do when you see another man doing something wrong.” You seem determined to collapse those two propositions because the second one is apparently inconvenient. And the “managed like unruly children” line is especially revealing of your sexism. Women saying, “Please don’t sexually assault women who are incapacitated” and “Please don’t call your friends to come over and sexually assault women who are incapacitated” is not women asking men to manage us. It is women asking other human beings not to assault people who are unable to meaningfully consent. The fact that you interpret that as an attempt to infantilize women says rather more about your framing than it does about women’s agency. Women aren’t “unruly children” because we object to being sexually assaulted. Nor do we surrender responsibility for our own choices by acknowledging that other adults remain responsible for their own choices. If a woman gets drunk, she can be responsible for getting drunk. If she takes drugs, she can be responsible for taking drugs. If she makes a bad decision about where to spend the night, she can be responsible for that decision. What she is not thereby responsible for is someone else’s decision to sexually exploit her. These adult males who decided to come over and have sex with a drunk women high on some unknown substance are responsible and should be held accountable for their adult decisions. And your final flourish about men having to “take society in hand and do the thinking for those among us who are unable to see to their own well-being” is not some devastating defense of male autonomy. It’s just a remarkably patronizing caricature of what is actually being said. Nobody is asking men to “think for women.” We are asking men to decide what kind of conduct they will engage in, that they tolerate from their friends, what they will challenge, and whether they are prepared to recognize another person’s humanity when there is no personal benefit to doing so. That’s not men being oppressed by accountability.

  2. Chase Lazenby Avatar
    Chase Lazenby

    Women in the US have essentially conceded the fact that they must be managed like unruly children. Seeing as the alleged victim waited weeks to decide that she was the victim of a horrific crime, we are left to draw conclusions based solely on the word of someone who claims to have been coerced into consuming so many illicit substances that she could not control her actions, but was not so intoxicated that she could not offer a substantive accusation. If she was done wrong then that’s unfortunate, and even more unfortunate that she waited 3 weeks to say anything. An men, and being the only gender being assigned any accountability for their actions, it is clearly incumbent on us to take society in hand and do the thinking for those among us who are unable to see to their own well-being.